Setting Goals
I set sign posts
What’s the difference?
Goals are of themselves a statement of lack.
An, I will be happy when...
A request for the brain 🧠 to observe something that isn’t true...
That I don’t already have everything I need.
That re-enforcement of lack puts my brain into a state of threat.
Sat in the wrong part of my brain to create new action.
That is why new habits are difficult.
Imagining telling a child that they aren’t good enough. Then ask them to step out of their comfort zone.
Sign posts though
Sign posts that I will notice along a journey of living purposefully, joyfully and deeply from my values.
People, opportunities and experiences just keep showing up quite expectedly.
Growth is a side effect of who you are being.
Being is the gateway to doing.
My clients don’t step forward as a response to me.
They step forward as a commitment to themselves.
#goalsetting